Holidays were always a bit awkward for me. The step-mom not wanting me around made it hard to spend time at my Grandparents if she was there with my Dad & brothers. I got used to being ignored I suppose. Got used to not having my brothers in my life like I would have liked.… Continue reading Holiday Blues…
So this may be on the more edgy side of things I’ve been writing about. Haha. I try to be discrete though. I was reading something about a certain…VIP person who is single, yet may have a friend with benefits (FWB) situation. This person is super private about his social life but you know how… Continue reading Are We Friends Or…?
Going it alone. For some I don’t think it’s possible. If you were truly going it alone, I think you’d be like my fantasy living situation: In a cave, with good internet, never seeing anyone in person. Silly but that’s the way I feel. When I was a kid I was alone a lot.… Continue reading A Helping Hand
Self-care is something I don’t think I knew about until at least six years ago, maybe even longer. Maybe it’s also something I’ve been doing all my life. Maybe it just didn’t have a term until recently. I am an only child of a single mother. I had to do a lot of things… Continue reading What Is Self-Care?
“I’m trying to figure you out.” Says my new friend. How do I explain to a teenager without over-explaining and trying to keep it PG? I’m not anything special to figure out. If I’m supposed to be figured out, no one has yet! Haha! I don’t think people are things to figure out. I do… Continue reading Love & Other…Stuff
A friend I guess I’m closest to (as far as how well she knows me and in other ways how close she lives to me compared to friends I’ve made who live out of state & even different countries) asked if I’m staying in my apartment another asked month. I basically told her what I’d… Continue reading The Mooch Friend
I think as children a majority of us were taught to just “suck it up”. To keep a “stiff upper lip” and all that instead of learning how to express with and deal with our emotions in a healthy manner. I think it’s important even as an adult to be able to sit for a… Continue reading Masking Emotions