Are We Friends Or…?

So this may be on the more edgy side of things I’ve been writing about. Haha. I try to be discrete though. I was reading something about a certain…VIP person who is single, yet may have a friend with benefits (FWB) situation. This person is super private about his social life but you know how… Continue reading Are We Friends Or…?

Talking…

  So I’ve had a few sessions with the therapist now and to be honest, I’m not sure whether it’s helping me or not. It’s hard to have to sit down and talk to someone one-on-one about little details of your life. Stuff that maybe I’ve told a dozen people in my lifetime—and not necessarily… Continue reading Talking…

What Is Self-Care?

  Self-care is something I don’t think I knew about until at least six years ago, maybe even longer. Maybe it’s also something I’ve been doing all my life. Maybe it just didn’t have a term until recently. I am an only child of a single mother. I had to do a lot of things… Continue reading What Is Self-Care?

The Mooch Friend

A friend I guess I’m closest to (as far as how well she knows me and in other ways how close she lives to me compared to friends I’ve made who live out of state & even different countries) asked if I’m staying in my apartment another asked month. I basically told her what I’d… Continue reading The Mooch Friend

Masking Emotions

I think as children a majority of us were taught to just “suck it up”. To keep a “stiff upper lip” and all that instead of learning how to express with and deal with our emotions in a healthy manner. I think it’s important even as an adult to be able to sit for a… Continue reading Masking Emotions

Respect and Dreams

There are certainly different kinds of respect. Or what you think of as respect. Respect can come from wealth, money, or power–and yah that kind of respect can be nice. There is the respect that comes with authority; whether a business or in a family setting. Respect should definitely go along with love. But what… Continue reading Respect and Dreams

The Music In My Life

I was reading an article about one of my favorite actor/singer’s in a magazine and he was listing a few bands/songs that made an impact in his life. It got me thinking about my music likes, dislikes and influences. Ok so yes like everything else in my life my taste in music is eclectic. Sometimes… Continue reading The Music In My Life